Are you in love with a man who does not even see you?

Are you in love with a man who does not see you?  You see him but he does not even see that you exist unless he wants something.  That something is usually a task that will benefit his sexual needs, his career or his business.  After the task is complete, he throws you aside like a piece a paper.  He does not see your inner beauty let alone your outer beauty.  He does not see how smart you are and how sexy you can be.  He is looking for that magazine barbie that will be his eye candy.  He is not looking for a help mate or a purpose driven partner like you.

When things go wrong and they do, he comes to you because he knows he can depend on you.  So tell me why can't he see that you are his help mate and partner?  What is it that he cannot see in you?  Why can't he see the queen that you are?  What's missing?  Is there a sign on your forehead that says, not ready? 


When you fall in love with a man who does not see you, sometimes you block your true blessings by hiding behind someone that will never see you.     Do you jump to his every call or move?  Do you make sure you don't miss his presentation, his interview, his smile, his walk, and his call?  Do any of these characteristics sound like you? 


Until he can see you for the help mate that you are, then you are in love with a man that does not even see you.  So I ask the question again, Are you in love with a man who does not even see you?


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What about the power of praying girlfriend?

There is power in praying for your husband.  What about praying for a man that is not your husband yet, but you two are dating?  Does that count?  Think about it for a minute.  I don't mean praying for a man that you have just been dating for 3 months, but someone you have been serious about for a year.  Hopefully, it does not take that long to date someone before you realize that you want to exclusively grow and build with that person. 

As with the movie, War Room the wife is taught how to pray for her husband and how to build a relationship with God.  Before she starts praying for her husband, she had to realize who she belong to first.   What was that you asked?  She had to realized that she belong to God first before she belonged to her husband.  I believe that same idealogy can be put to a woman that is searching and desire to have a husband. A single woman has to realize that she belongs to God first.  Therefore, learning to pray for God to send her husband her way is a good start.  Most important, asking God to protect her heart and allow the one that he has choosen for her. After all, we don't want to make choices that result in heartache. 

Now, what if the man she has been dating is not the man God choose for her?  What should she do?  You guessed it, pray on it and talk to the heavenly father about it.  See, sometimes we go and talk to our girlfriends and it's not the Devine intervention that we need. So keep praying and focus on who you are and your walk. Your husband will come in due time.  Better yet, he will come in God's time.

Are you praying for a husband? 

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